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(@nitnation2016)
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@lakerie

With wife and kids I'm direct and honest.  I expect them to be direct and honest... That comes in many different ways.

So no I have never called my wife stupid or reckless but she has yet to be.

At work I'm direct and honest I say what I feel and we move on.  My boss will come to me for my opinion good bad because he can get a direct honest answer.

Yes I talked and talk that way, I'm good at what I do and respected for it.

His comment stupid and reckless...



   
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@lakerie

You're absolutely correct, Lake.  I worked in HR & also Labor Relations the last 17 years before my retirement and had to have the talk many times, mostly with management personnel.  Nothing wrong with being honest and direct.  It's not really what you say, but how you say it. 



   
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I would assume many workplaces would have an issue if an employee told another employee from the South to get over the civil war, or that they think the Southerner doesn't like Yankees.

In jest maybe, but seriously stating that or generalizing Southern people in that way would probably result in a trip to HR as well.



   
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(@nitnation2016)
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@rip

LOL....



   
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(@lakerie)
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@southern-psu-fan

Southern...you are a respectful, knowledgeable and passionate poster, the kind of guy, maybe one of the most liked posters on this entire board.  I would love to share a beer or two with. 



   
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(@lakerie)
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@nitnation2016

Oh I don't doubt you are really good at your work. For that matter and what I've stated, your Penn State football content is really good too. I'm very sure your wife  and kids are super cool too. That said, you could provide the same respect on this forum as you do at home. BTW, let's be realistic. I highly doubt that if in work dispute you called your boss stupid or reckless ( in those terms ) you would be employed at the same place...unless your boss is your brother on law or something like that. 

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(@lakerie)
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@roaminglion

Probably right about that roam though I don't ever recall heated civil war conversation coming up in the work place. My thoughts are about what is appropriate here in the nitsoftheroundtable forum. Disputes are great, unnecessary harsh retorts not so much.



   
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(@southern-psu-fan)
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Are y’all watching this Bills/Houston game? Houston is giving this game away



   
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(@nitnation2016)
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@lakerie

If you read my comments I never said sky was stupid...  His comment was, smart wise people are not immune to it.  I have no clue about him personally, I commented on his comment.

 

I've never called a boss stupid but I have had to point out and speak to a stupid idea and say as much  etc.  I have a mutual respect and no I still have the same job and in no way close to losing it over how I talk.  Being realistic about like I said I'm respected for my straight forward approach.

 

I provided respect, that comment deserved zero.



   
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(@southern-psu-fan)
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D-Watson baby lol what a play... I just like bob


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(@lakerie)
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@nitnation2016

Words are important. Your comment was "To even post such BS is stupid and reckless."  (reference your first response to Sky on this thread). There are direct and indirect insults, yours could be considered indirect but (IMHO) was clearly direct.  

Here is my point, this is a good place where we respect each other whether or not we agree with their comments. I enjoy your football acumen, you may consider measuring the rest. 

I believe you are a smart civil engineer respected for you talents but its a good that you never called your boss stupid. not a great career building strategy.

 



   
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@southern-psu-fan

Dang Buffalo!!!!



   
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(@nitnation2016)
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@southern-psu-fan

If it's not the Steelers I struggle to watch but the Steelers themselves have been a struggle to watch



   
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(@nitnation2016)
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@lakerie

I don't care what you like or think of my words... It was the truth and Fact to the stupid and reckless comment.

I will sleep well knowing I called it out for what it was.  My measure of Sky's OP was spot on.

I'm comfortable with who I am and it has served me well.  Thanks

 



   
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(@southern-psu-fan)
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@nitnation2016

i feel ya I’m a Falcons fan lol



   
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(@lakerie)
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@nitnation2016

you say "I don't care blah blah blah....." a lot. Sleep well 16. 

I'm done with this conversation. We are what we are.



   
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(@roaminglion)
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Wow, down 16-0 in Houston comes back for the win.

Glad for BoB 😁



   
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(@nitnation2016)
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@lakerie

Good...

You are correct we are what we are. 

I'm a good honest person who calls it the way I see it.



   
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I dont think he was ever a great fit. Smart, innovative, successful at PSU/Fordham,  and a good guy.  He is not a very dynamic guy, lacked coaching experience in the South,  team was said to have had numerous discipline issues not made public, and he lacked the mettle to make MSU an elite program or a 9-3 or 10-2 program.  Not sure many coaches can get 9-10 wins each year at MSU. 



   
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(@southern-psu-fan)
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@cc-delco

Happy new year CC!

Mississippi State is a 6-6 team unless they have a NFL QB which won’t happen often IMO. They have unrealistic expectations if they think they’re 9 or more wins every year. Tennessee gets better players and they struggle to get to 10 wins. CC we had a great year finishing 11-2 cotton Bowl champs and we should be better next year we just need to find a way to get that 1 more win hopefully the coaching changes get it. I’m looking forward to the spring game to see how we look.



   
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(@lakerie)
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@cc-delco

As they say, square peg in a round hole....or is round peg in a square hole? Wait, that isn't right, square peg, round hole, that's it.

It will be hard for Mississippi State to ever rise to the SEC elite without the facilities of the others and recruiting power. They remind me of Iowa State in the Big 12, always a threat but never a contender. 



   
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Posted by: @lakerie

@nitnation2016

you say "I don't care blah blah blah....." a lot. Sleep well 16. 

I'm done with this conversation. We are what we are.

As always, you speak like a true gentleman Lake. Happy New Year to you & yours.

 



   
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@nitnation2016

you say "I don't care blah blah blah....." a lot. Sleep well 16. 

I'm done with this conversation. We are what we are.

As always, you speak like a true gentleman Lake. Happy New Year to you & yours.

 

We all do...



   
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(@southern-psu-fan)
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Did y’all see where Vanderbilt hired Ted Roof for their DC position? IMO he did a pretty good job at Penn State. His hands were tied at Ga Tech because we couldn’t get good defensive talent because of the triple opinion Paul Johnson ran. I’ve heard a few times where he was asked about the culture at a Penn State and every time he put the person asking in their place and said Penn State was a great place. They were trying to bait him but he didn’t fall for it. I believe he’ll do good at Vanderbilt. Figured I’d put it here instead of taking up Room  on a new add comment lol


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(@lakerie)
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Thanks Bob, happy new year.  I've said enough about the other thing. I will say that 16 knows a heck of a lot more about X's and O's than I do and his football content is appreciated.

Where does everybody think Moorehead's next stop is? I think his skill set is highly valuable, wether or not that will be in as a head coach at a major D1 school is questionable.



   
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